Love Language Quiz
Choose between 30 pairs of everyday moments to see how you rank the five love languages: words, acts of service, gifts, quality time and physical touch. Free, quick.
The idea of five love languages — words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch — comes from counsellor Gary Chapman's 1992 book The Five Love Languages. People tend to show and want love in different ways, and knowing which ones matter most to you (and to the people close to you) can head off misunderstandings. This free quiz uses 30 original either-or choices; it is not the official assessment.
How to use this tool
- For each pair, pick the moment that would make you feel more loved by a partner, friend or family member — even if both sound nice.
- Answer all 30 pairs; the result appears when the last one is chosen.
- Read your primary and secondary love languages and the share for each.
- Ask your partner or friend to take it too and compare.
Formula
Share of language L = picks of L ÷ 30; maximum 12 picks each
Every one of the 10 possible pairs of languages appears three times, so each language is offered 12 times and can be chosen 0–12 times. Each language also appears as option A exactly six times, so always answering A gives an even 20% split.
Example
If you choose quality time all 12 times it is offered, words of affirmation and physical touch 5 times each, and acts of service and gifts 4 times each, your result is Quality time 40%, then Words of affirmation and Physical touch at 16.7% each.
Frequently asked questions
Is this the official love language test?
No. The 5 Love Languages® is a registered trademark of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago, whose Moody Publishers imprint Northfield Publishing publishes Gary Chapman's books; the official quiz is on the official 5 Love Languages website. This independent quiz uses its own questions on the same five ideas.
Is there scientific evidence for love languages?
Studies give mixed support: people do differ in what they appreciate, but the five categories are not a validated psychological model. Use the result as a conversation starter.
Can I have two love languages?
Yes. Ties are common, and most people value several. The percentages show how strongly each one featured in your choices.
For self-reflection and fun only: this short quiz is not a validated psychological test or relationship advice. The 5 Love Languages® is a registered trademark of The Moody Bible Institute of Chicago; this independent quiz is not the official assessment and is not affiliated with or endorsed by the trademark owner or Gary Chapman. How we check our calculators · Full disclaimer
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